11 Habits That Can Ruin A Happy Relationship/Marriage

There are certain habits that could quiver the very foundation of any strong and happy relationship no matter how mature or resolved the partners are to ensure the relationship works.

Every relationship, be it courtship, cordial or marital, flourish when the partners involved either by their actions or utterances exhibit mutual respect for each other and show equal appreciation for what they have going.

 Here are some habits that could ruin a happy relationship:

Lies

A relationship based on lies or one which emanates from it  has a higher level of collapsing because it's rooted on shallow grounds and could fail to stand the test of time.

It would  certainly hurt out your significant other when he or she finds out you have been living a lie and pulling a wool over their eyes. It betrays every trust and tarnishes the hope of  building a future  together. 

 Denying Each Other

As married couples, sex should not be used as a revenge tool or a means of 'torture'. Your bodies belong to each other and denying each other may lead your spouse to falter.

Infidelity

This is majorly  responsible for several cases of separation, divorce and domestic violence in relationships. As far as marriage is concerned, it is important for couples to stay faithful to each other and hold on to their vows. 

Criticising  Each Other

Of course there are positive criticism but when it is aimed to taunt, ridicule or hurt your partner, it certainly would affect your relationship and may cause your partner to become lukewarm about  your relationship.

Insensitivity

A partner who is insensitive to his or her significant other's emotion would only be sending a signal that he or she does not care about their feelings. It is important to know how your partner feels and know how to deal with their emotions at every point in time.

Failing To Carry Each Other Along

Doing things alone and failing to carry each other along in every of your endeavour could also have adverse effect in your relationship. Couples should walk on the same path and help each other realise individual or collective goals.

Poor Communication

Many breakups, divorce or relationship issues could have been avoided if only partners communicated better.  For a lasting and happy relationship, couples should avoid form of Communication gap. 

Pride

There is no room for pride in love. You should know when to admit you're wrong and apologise. Pride would only make you lose the most valuable things in life, especially the one who would have been the best partner for you.

Ingratitude

Failing to appreciate your partner, gifts and every kind gesture is a sure way to ruin a relationship. Learn to be grateful for even the smallest things, that way, the bigger things you desire would come your way.

Anger

Anger could be a weakness for some people and many do not know how to control themselves when they lose their temper. This can greatly affect our relationship and may possibly ruin it even if it were a happy one.

Internet

It is important for many of us to use the internet as often as possible. However, it should not be to the detriment of our relationship. We should endeavour to create a balance and not to be entirely engrossed with it.