How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

Having your significant other far away from your reaching arms could be very frustrating and lonely. Simple hugs, touch, a walk together or visits become an arching need.

 A few people believe in long distance relationship, (LDR), so it is rather natural to be alone in your island of thoughts. Many people  don't see what you see or feelof LDR expect to be discouraged or even ridiculed by family, friends or colleagues.
However, such relationship do have its advantages and it all depends on those involved.

• Communicate: Talk to each when necessary. Though some relationship advisers say it is necessary to reduce how often you talk to each because it makes the loneliness deeper. But I disagree, I think it is actually the other way round. The more often you talk to each other, the more you reduce the distance. Talking to each other often will make it seem the person is closer emotionally and physically  rather than far away. Send recent pictures of yourself, send messages, call, talk about everything. It will keep you closer to each other.

• Trust: You both just have to trust each other. In LDR, you may not see what your partner is doing, so your only bet is his or her words. You have to believe your partner. Do not allow unnecessary suspicions or jealousy .Trust is the only thing you can cling to. Many discouragements or ridicule would come and the only way to overcome, is to trust in  your love and relationship. It is your major strong hold. 

• Avoid Negative People: Stop talking about your relationship with those who do not support LDR in the first place. Their negativity could rob off on you. Rather, it is better to seek advise from those who are in same relationship or those who can encourage you.

•  Hanging Out : You don't have to cut off your social activities totally, but it is advisable you reduce them. If you must hang out, try not to do so alone.You could go out with a friend (same sex), who supports your relationship, a relative of yours or that of your partner. It will help you put things in check.

• Visit: It is very important you visit at any given opportunity. Do not give excuses. Your partner may be longing to see you and probably have prepared for that moment. Visiting a partner in a LDR, helps  make up for those period of absence, so visit often.

•  Remember Your Special Days: Never forget your birthdays or any other day you both hold  special. Try to always remember those days because it shows you have your partner in mind.

• Believe In Your Relationship: See your relationship as an opportunity to love and care for each other more. Also see it as a test of character and challenge you can both overcome in mutual love and understanding.