Things To Have In Mind While Going On A First Date

First dates are often full of enticements and anxiety. So many thoughts come running through your mind, leaving you at a loss on what to wear, how to behave,

what to say, if the connection will blossom from there and so on.
However, to ensure a successful date, it is important you remember to go along with the following things.

For Him:

• Be punctual: It is  not nice to keep a lady waiting especially on a first date. Courtesy demands that you don't keep a person waiting on a date so as to prevent them from looking awkward or uneasy.

• Be courteous: For a lady, it gives a good feeling to meet a courteous guy, especially for the first time. You could pull a chair for her and ask if she wants you to order for a meal or not and please try to put up a smile, it will help the two of you relax. It is rather scary to meet a man  for the first time and he has to welcome you with a frown! Be humorous but at the same time watch her reactions to know if your joke is an off.  Be courteous but don't over do it, it might just put her off.

• Be yourself: During first dates, many  people often make the mistake of being someone else. Don't pretend in order  to impress, be yourself. It is not a contest, it is a date. It is better for her to like you just as you are than to find out you were only pretending .

• Be confident:  Confidence attracts. Most women like hanging around men who exude  confidence. True, first dates may make one nervous, but it is really not necessary especially for a man. Be in control and even if you are nervous, find a way to put in check.

• Dress appropriately:  Don't go on a date shabbily dressed. Always consider the setting, dress appropriately and accordingly.

• Time: Think about it, other people may be aware of your date. Probably her parents, friends or siblings and they might want to know when she would get home. Do not keep her out late for too long. Be conscious of time, it is the first date and 'first impressions last longer'.

For Her:

• Relax: Feel comfortable, he is not going to devour you. It's a date. relax and don't feel unnecessarily tensed. Having to go on a date for the first time, could make one  nervous and that is understandable, especially when you already fancy him.You wouldn't want things to go wrong but you need to relax. When you are relaxed, you would be able to act more appropriately.

• Be confident: Confidence is your main tool. Going on a first date without being confident could lead to a complete failure. 

• Do not pretend: Be yourself.  Nobody likes people who pretend. So, just be you. It is just two ways, it is either he likes you the way you are or he doesn't. You really can't force a man.

• Dress appropriately: Put on what will make you comfortable, what will make you feel good about yourself. Being properly dressed will boost your confidence and also show that you considered  the date to be important.

• Don't keep him waiting: In as much as you wouldn't want to be kept waiting, don't keep him waiting either. If he is picking you up, be ready on time. If you'll have to meet him somewhere, please arrive early.

• Money: Never leave your home without some money with you. You probably would want to offer to pay for a part of the meal or tickets for a movie or may need to pay for a taxi back home.

• Safety: While going on a first date, at least let someone be aware of your date, possibly the venue and who you are going out with. Go with your phone and ensure you meet in a public place.