7 Habits That Can Put Even The Most Loving Partner Off

Have you ever wondered if the real reason why your partner avoids hanging  around you could be some habits or things you do?

Does your partner give every 'unavailable' excuse just to avoid hanging around you? Here are some things that could put them off and do try and avoid them.

• Complaining: Are you one of those that never stops complaining about almost everything? Nobody likes hanging around those that find faults. Stop complaining and you will find out you'll be interesting to hang out with.

• Lack Of Control: Do you lack self control, especially when it comes to socialising? Being unable to control yourself especially when drinking can easily turn your spouse off.

• Untidy Appearance: Do you neglect your looks? Your clothes, general appearance? These are some things that can easily turn anyone off, even your spouse. No one likes hanging around a dirty person.

• Neglecting Your Spouse/Partner: Do you give all attention to every other thing including your phones, internet or everyone except your spouse? This habit can be very annoying because your spouse more often than not needs your undivided attention.

• Being Out Of Shape: It is very natural for our shapes to change as we grow older. For women, certainly, child birth would change our shapes. However, it is still not an excuse to just ignore your body, one should make an effort to work out.

• Being Indoors : Sometimes, it can be really boring staying indoors all the time. Try hanging out sometimes and you'll see, it is great fun going out especially with friends and family. Be willing to go out on a picnic, visits, shopping, vacation . Stop giving excuses to stay indoors.

• Taking Things Personal: Learn to loosen up. Relax, live life and have fun. Stop taking things too seriously, even when you should be offended. Stop being bitter, do to let let go and you'll see your spouse/ partner will never be bored hanging around you.